You are an angel that God sent to help and protect your loved and closed ones

This is what one of my friend told me over our usual BBM chat on the last weekend..

"Bev..you are such an angle that God sent to help and protect your loved and closed ones"

I replied

"Yes.. they are very important to me..very.. i will do anything to help them. to protect them & to sayang them.. and it upsets me to see they get hurt & depressed.. but of course i do hope that they will sayang me as much as i sayang them which i think most of them do :) "

Friend replied..

"I sayang you.."

Looking back at what i did over the years for my family and friends.. it was and is purely based on how attached and close i am towards them.. In terms of helping.. of course there's limitation due to my capability.. but i will do whatever it takes to help but at most time.. being nice and helpful isn't the right thing to do anymore.. Why?? People tend to take you for granted knowing that you will definitely help out and that is what has been happening from last time till now.. Should i stop being too nice?? Should i start to change?? but i don't change for others but i think i should change based on the situation and surrounding.. I am just tired being too nice and being taken granted at most time.. 

Who will be there for me when i need someone to be there for me?? Is there really none or i never want to voice up and ask for help??

How?

Hmmm.. :/