The conversation between me and my baby bro
Have not seen my baby bro for months..
I missed him..
So i msned him.. and ask him when is he coming back..
Then we chatted about our updates in life and etc
He finally told me about he called off his relationship with Amelia..
I roughly heard from my sister but never get full details from him.. as i would rather him to tell me himself.. which i know he would..
Sad to hear about the breakup because i like that girl alot..
He gave me his reason why.. religion is one of the main issue..
Amelia's family belongs to the Stonch Christian category.. and they have the intention to convert him into Christianity and my brother thinks he is the only son and he will not change what he is being brought up as..
Oh well.. our family is not that religious but i see where he is coming from.. he said what is the whole point of dragging the relationship further when he knows things will not work out eventually at the end of the day.. he will not convert and it is better to call off now rather than it is too late when both parties will end up in depression and heartaches..
My role as a sister to him.. just advise him what is right and not right to do.. What i would not want is my brother to be a player, heart breaker, asshole & bastard.. I've seen too much of this and also based on my personal experiences..
That's what i told him upfront.. never ever give false hope, take advantage, take girl for granted & doing all the trails of what a player and heart breaker will do.. He promised me that he will be a good boy.. Which he is already one.. I am very sure he will grow up to be a a wonderful and successful gentleman one day.. :)
I missed him..
So i msned him.. and ask him when is he coming back..
Then we chatted about our updates in life and etc
He finally told me about he called off his relationship with Amelia..
I roughly heard from my sister but never get full details from him.. as i would rather him to tell me himself.. which i know he would..
Sad to hear about the breakup because i like that girl alot..
He gave me his reason why.. religion is one of the main issue..
Amelia's family belongs to the Stonch Christian category.. and they have the intention to convert him into Christianity and my brother thinks he is the only son and he will not change what he is being brought up as..
Oh well.. our family is not that religious but i see where he is coming from.. he said what is the whole point of dragging the relationship further when he knows things will not work out eventually at the end of the day.. he will not convert and it is better to call off now rather than it is too late when both parties will end up in depression and heartaches..
My role as a sister to him.. just advise him what is right and not right to do.. What i would not want is my brother to be a player, heart breaker, asshole & bastard.. I've seen too much of this and also based on my personal experiences..
That's what i told him upfront.. never ever give false hope, take advantage, take girl for granted & doing all the trails of what a player and heart breaker will do.. He promised me that he will be a good boy.. Which he is already one.. I am very sure he will grow up to be a a wonderful and successful gentleman one day.. :)
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I have a friend who just got involved with a girl, and her parents expects him to go to church, although he is a free-thinker, but I think he ought to have a stand and say, I believe what's right, instead he follows her and her family in order to bond and etc...
I've dated a Catholic guy for 2 years, as much as religion concern, we never have issue on this, as we believe in doing good deeds and need not go for such...conversion of religion.
My own point of view of course, no intention for discrimination.
I am not a religious person myself and seriously i know nuts about my own religion and i will never ever want to touch into this issue : religion.. Sometimes religion does come into the way and is one of the main issue that separates alot of couples because their family cannot accept the conversion and etc..
Oh well they are both still young.. I wouldn't say my brother is doing completely the right thing or the wrong thing but he can see what is coming through and the difficulties if this pro-longs knowing that the x gf and her family is very religious..
Yup thats my believe too doing good deeds is the best on top of anything and everything else.. it is useless to be religious when u do bad things to others..
As a sister.. i will respect what his decision so long i know he didn't mistreat his other half..
:)